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CT or Not

January 25th, 2012 admin No comments

Singles are not always looking for a committed relationship. Some in fact have commitment phobia others feel they are too young to settle down. Some just like to have sex. A guy out on the town may find it hard to know if the hot looking gay boy is seriously considering him for a possible relationship or is just having a bit of flirtatious fun. It is not like every guy in the gay bar is wearing a t-shirt that says I am just into fucking. So how is a gay man looking for more than a one night stand find out if the flirting is more than just a bit of fun?

So physiologist consider flirting an essential part of human interaction and researchers shows that flirting can to be found in all cultures and societies.

Since it is consider a basic part of human nature we can find people flirting everywhere, at parties, in bars, sport events, school, work, in fact where ever a socially acceptable mate can be found. But flirting for fun is different from flirting with intent. Flirting with intent is part of a selection process. It is either about finding a mate or showing to the world that you can OWN a highly prized and desired person. The signs of flirting are fairly well known they are:

1. Eye contact. The flirter will make direct eye contact and not look away when you speak. The are very intent on projecting the same mood as the conversation and in letting guy know that every word you say is important or entertaining to them. This is a sign used by both flirter and one with intent.

2. The hair flip or soap opera head turn is so funny that it is sexy. That slid long glance and wink and smile is very disarming. It takes practice to pull this off well. This move is used by a player, he is not usually interested and is just seeing if he can get you into bed.

3. Sucking in the stomach. We have all seen this one it is used by both the serious and the flirter but usually the casual flirter will be wearing something that doesn’t show his stomach in a bad light so this move is more often used by someone truly interested in making a good impression on you.

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